Pulling back from a girl can be very difficult at times, especially when she is really into you. I advise you to employ caution and utmost carefulness when trying to pull back from any girl, because women can be very vindictive, especially when you are a high-value man with a lot going on for yourself. She won’t let you go easily, so you have to become less and less available and make it look very natural.
1. START BECOMING LESS AVAILABLE
If you want to pullback from a girl, do not just cut off suddenly from her. Start becoming busier, and that will result in you becoming less available. Make her understand that you are very busy working on lots of projects and cannot see her as much as you used to.
Reduce your availability, and if it continues, she’ll get the clue that you might not be interested and will move on. In the process, some women will also lose interest, meet other guys, and move on. With this pattern, it becomes natural and easier, instead of pulling back suddenly.
2. STOP INITIATING CONTACT
If you want to pull back from a girl, stop initiating contact in any way. Stop calling, stop texting, and stop liking her photos or status on social media. Stop initiating any kind of contact. Allow her to do all the pursuing and contacting. When she contacts you, respond well and make her understand you’ve been busy.
By the time she contacts you on different occasions and notices you don’t return the favor, she will withdraw herself from you. This won’t be easy with some girls, especially the ones that are really into you, but you have to be focused and handle the situation carefully. Get busy, spend time working on yourself, and soon, she’ll get the clue and move on.
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3. REDUCE HOW MUCH YOU SLEEP WITH HER
If you want to successfully pull back from a girl and have a positive result, you have to limit the number of times you sleep with her. If you sleep with her three times in a week, you have to reduce it to two times a week, and as time goes on, reduce it to once a week, and then don’t sleep with her anymore. Women see sleeping with them as a form of validation.
So when you continue sleeping with them that much or even more, they’ll feel you still have a very high interest in them. So reduce the times you sleep with her, and at the same time, limit every engagement, contact, or activity you usually perform with her.
4. TRAVEL OUT OF YOUR BASE
You have to travel most of the time. Give her any random reason and travel out of your town or to a different country. Make her understand she won’t have access to you and cannot contact you. Block all means she can use to contact you while on this trip. Spend as much time as you want. After you get back, you have to travel after a while.
This will work perfectly for you, if you have a good business running, because it requires lots of finances. Just stay out of town, explore other cities, have new experiences, and meet other girls. She’ll gradually begin to lose interest and detach from you.
5. LOSE CONTACT WITH PEOPLE SHE HAS ACCESS TO
When pulling back from a girl, especially when you’ve limited your availability from her and limited how much she can contact you, she can keep track of you through mutuals. So you also have to limit your presence and communication with those you both know so she doesn’t get information about you from them. You have to live like a ghost in the town, while she does not have much information about you. Your mutuals too should not have much information about you, so nobody gives you out or sabotages your effort.
6. CHANGE YOUR CITY
This is a process that is needed for a girl who is extremely attached, vindictive, or violent. With this kind of girl, previous tips might not yield good results because she’ll force her way into your life with every possible means. If you have an overly obsessed girl you want to pull back from, totally change your city. Give her justifiable reasons why you need to change your city, reasons that will work effectively are job-related or academic-related reasons.
These are reasons she cannot discourage you from. So change your city, begin a new life, meet other girls, work on yourself, and gradually limit communication with her. While breaking communications, don’t forget to break communications with your mutuals or friends she has access to.
These are the ways you can easily and successfully pull back from any girl.
