Do not give any woman free attention if you don’t want her to lose interest in you. Women love the chase and adventure that comes with a relationship. They love the feeling they have when they chase after you. They love that feeling when they fight and cry for your attention, when they cry alone at home because you’re hurting them.
These are the kinds of emotional feelings they love. When a woman expresses such emotions for you, that’s when she really falls deeply for you.
So when you give her free attention, you deny her all these emotional feelings. You deny her the emotional rollercoaster. She has nothing to think about, which will make her become distant from you because her emotions aren’t tied to you.
This is why nice guys lose. They give a girl all the attention they think she needs. Before she requests anything, they’ve already gotten it for her. They don’t say no. They say yes to everything, and the woman becomes bored and soon begins to distance herself from him, looking for a guy that will feed her emotions. This is why they say nice guys finish last.
Women do not want you to be nice to them. They don’t want you to need them. They don’t want you to chase after them. If you do, they will run away. What a woman wants is for you to attract her. Let her see your value and come chasing for you.
When she wants you more than you want her, you become mysterious to her. You become a challenge, and the efforts she puts in every day trying to get your attention feed her emotions. It keeps her emotions busy. She goes home thinking about you, and when she wakes up, she checks her phone to see if you dropped a message for her.
Seeing that their efforts are not yielding results yet makes them try even harder to please you. This is the position you should be in with a woman in a relationship. She should be the one doing all the chasing and pursuing. With that, she’ll come closer because women do not like losing. So she’ll try her best and put more effort into ensuring she wins you over.
Do not deny a woman all these emotions by chasing after her often. She will hate you for that. Allow her to chase you. This will be another form of investment she is making in the relationship. And the more she invests, the more she’ll be willing to stay back and also put in efforts to fix the relationship when issues arise.
Any woman that has put in lots of efforts to build a relationship will not let it die easily. She will put in lots of effort to fix it. But if all the efforts were put in by you to build the relationship without her investment, she can easily leave because she’ll feel she has nothing to lose since she invested nothing.
So, if you want a woman to value the relationship, allow her to invest in the relationship. This is the only way you can keep a woman’s interest in you high. If you become the one chasing, she’ll begin to run away.
Remember, women do not want you to need them; they want you to attract them. So if you give her free attention, she will not appreciate it as you expected.
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